tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post24185485058059905..comments2024-02-16T07:16:35.826-06:00Comments on Gwen in Love: Good IntentionsGwenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07498684532364491174noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-22033714230493513012010-08-19T17:59:22.783-05:002010-08-19T17:59:22.783-05:00I love this! This is kinda what I have been trying...I love this! This is kinda what I have been trying with my blogWahzat Gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-69581066290343027032010-08-03T16:24:36.608-05:002010-08-03T16:24:36.608-05:00Good one Gwen! Sometimes it's easy to forget.....Good one Gwen! Sometimes it's easy to forget... THANKS for the reminder :)Jenn @ My Not So Glamorous Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00886713948949981780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-79126816501718682082010-07-28T10:41:22.530-05:002010-07-28T10:41:22.530-05:00Great post Gwen! I love the idea of changing thoug...Great post Gwen! I love the idea of changing thought patterns to more positive ones!Mrs. Blimeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02052642841712667134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-9886586889169916652010-07-25T22:33:15.578-05:002010-07-25T22:33:15.578-05:00This is some great advice....as I recently got eng...This is some great advice....as I recently got engaged! I'll keep these in mind. Thanks!Vibin' Vixenhttp://www.vibinvixen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-66734901185713933442010-07-24T11:22:48.739-05:002010-07-24T11:22:48.739-05:00"I would never intentionally hurt my mother, ..."I would never intentionally hurt my mother, she would never intentionally hurt me"...I love your blog, thank you!Dee Paulinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16395771931723705072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-38361058986559384042010-07-23T23:37:19.318-05:002010-07-23T23:37:19.318-05:00This is a good post! I try to remember to change ...This is a good post! I try to remember to change my thinking. They aren't perfect. And as much as we would like them to be, they aren't mind readers.Louriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05477223472789865063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-78442968098177414572010-07-23T23:20:30.025-05:002010-07-23T23:20:30.025-05:00great post! but i kind of feel as if i'm the w...great post! but i kind of feel as if i'm the worst girlfriend ever after reading it... lol... but I guess I have a lot of room to change:)Olyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12536819554072160344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-48292810883137280992010-07-23T21:39:23.547-05:002010-07-23T21:39:23.547-05:00My husband always says "Don't infer evil ...My husband always says "Don't infer evil where evil is not intended," meaning just what you said. You give the other person the benefit of the doubt and choose to believe that he didn't intentionally set out to hurt your feelings or whatever. <br /><br />I like where you said "change yourself" because we can't change the other person, but we can, with God's help, change ourselves!momsthewordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14519343990735608713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-12683087915833418762010-07-23T14:57:23.858-05:002010-07-23T14:57:23.858-05:00Words to live by, I feel like if I just stopped an...Words to live by, I feel like if I just stopped and thought about that before getting mad or angry, I never would and would feel so much better!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-74017520021121601332010-07-23T14:05:25.110-05:002010-07-23T14:05:25.110-05:00This is a great post! It's so easy to believe...This is a great post! It's so easy to believe the worst, but it takes actual effort, sometimes, to believe the best. I love my husband more than life, but I need to work on this! :)THE Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06723115517394978327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-3960893122409620352010-07-23T13:51:07.187-05:002010-07-23T13:51:07.187-05:00Totally what I needed to hear today! And great exa...Totally what I needed to hear today! And great examples!! I laughed when I read the one about taking out the garbage. We just sat down a few weeks ago and made a list of who wants to be responsible for which chores, and he chose garbages. By the end of that same week, the bathroom garbage was a little more than overflowing! But it got emptied, and not by me! :)<br /><br />Thanks for doing this post! <br /><br />p.s. The birthday one is kinda funny too. It's actually my birthday today... I wonder he'll get me ;)Curly Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13731440303266750785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-11681462292688795222010-07-23T13:30:59.024-05:002010-07-23T13:30:59.024-05:00I am definitely the one asking the first set of qu...I am definitely the one asking the first set of questions. I've been married for 4 months, but my husband and I have been together for over 8 years. I know I should see things from the second point of view, but it's going to take a LOT of work to try to think that way.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05022133297562419119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-34743094444437604772010-07-23T11:33:28.253-05:002010-07-23T11:33:28.253-05:00what a great post!what a great post!Ashley Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17474790366358568219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-75821455572300735942010-07-23T09:13:31.891-05:002010-07-23T09:13:31.891-05:00I love this blog! So much awesome information and ...I love this blog! So much awesome information and fun posts. I will be a regular reader. Thanks for sharing!jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17009564801194844318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-87579756396363856762010-07-23T08:53:50.295-05:002010-07-23T08:53:50.295-05:00Dearest Gwen, thank you so much for leading me to ...Dearest Gwen, thank you so much for leading me to your so very inspiring and lovely space here! This is truely such a beautiful post and such a lovely reminder of such a sweet sentiment. Im preparing for a wedding next year and i know i am going to marry a good man. Have a lovely merry happy weekend and lots of love to you and yours!jacquelinehttp://jqlinesocuteithurts.typepad.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-73599613579473524382010-07-23T07:49:14.497-05:002010-07-23T07:49:14.497-05:00Oh my goodness I love this blog!!!! How awesome! I...Oh my goodness I love this blog!!!! How awesome! I feel like I am going to learn a lot here! :)Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14959510838909280534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-32364915126976589962010-07-22T22:40:35.730-05:002010-07-22T22:40:35.730-05:00Cool blog! DOn't know how you did, but I'm...Cool blog! DOn't know how you did, but I'm glad you found me. Thanks for your comment on my blog! I just liked your FB page too.<br /><br />Blessings!Kathleen Summershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03828745972005868167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-36507943956204167322010-07-22T22:28:13.077-05:002010-07-22T22:28:13.077-05:00When my hubby and I were engaged, I remember telli...When my hubby and I were engaged, I remember telling him this very thing. I was like, please assume that I'm for your good and I'll assume that you're for mine. That nipped a lot of arguments in the bud.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-29786658060253988092010-07-22T21:12:58.990-05:002010-07-22T21:12:58.990-05:00I'm not married, this is great. I need to remi...I'm not married, this is great. I need to remind myself to think like this a lot more often.Venassahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07734884129417163103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-55641259247861864242010-07-22T21:03:49.978-05:002010-07-22T21:03:49.978-05:00This is such a good post. So very true ... but it&...This is such a good post. So very true ... but it's so hard to put into practice sometimes! Thanks for the words of encouragement to be a better spouse, as always :)Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04807419148968508543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-63990264296259270132010-07-22T19:23:48.884-05:002010-07-22T19:23:48.884-05:00boy, i was JUST thinking about this today. i am g...boy, i was JUST thinking about this today. i am guilty. it is sooo hard to change the thought when you are annoyed but it is so nice to be reminded that he really would never do anything to intentionally hurt me.<br /><br />you are a breath of fresh air.Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15614940560800247144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-37892502907870477962010-07-22T18:14:22.221-05:002010-07-22T18:14:22.221-05:00I am guilty as charged. I allow simple things to m...I am guilty as charged. I allow simple things to make me upset and I say stupid things back, that I know as soon as it comes out of my mouth I hurt hubby's feelings. I think that alot of my issue lies in the fact that my father was not around, but I had a very loving grandfather in his place. Even though I had that relationship it never really taught me how to be truly loved by a man. I have had to learn that with my husband and he has been very patient with me. I think that sometimes when he does not do simple things that I ask, I revert back to a child expecting their father to do something in which he never follows through with. I need to process more, instead of saying sorry later. He is the most important person in my life and I would never intentionally hurt his pride, his feelings or him emotionally. Love this post and thanks for allowing me to think about how I can make my relationship better.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594173760764250854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-48421683633323437972010-07-22T16:54:25.722-05:002010-07-22T16:54:25.722-05:00Gwen I love this! Changing my perspective always ...Gwen I love this! Changing my perspective always makes me act differently. And I find myself being more loving and receiving more love in return. This post is such a wonderful reminder that my husband married me because he loves and I shouldn't assume otherwise!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05628573978648437709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-7013415677702388252010-07-22T16:29:16.744-05:002010-07-22T16:29:16.744-05:00Everyday I read this blog I fall a little more in ...Everyday I read this blog I fall a little more in love with my husband. It really is an effort (and one we have to be reminded of!) to change our wrong thinking and give our spouses the benefit of the doubt.<br /><br />Thanks for all you do!Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04753876570436758102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5292315378265352241.post-90760308585160647052010-07-22T16:29:01.253-05:002010-07-22T16:29:01.253-05:00True true true! It's a never ending struggle t...True true true! It's a never ending struggle to be more positive and it's easy to take our husbands for granted!Shelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14428264346128137328noreply@blogger.com