Babeland: Save Up to 20% PLUS Gift with Purchase

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Now through February 13th, you will save up to 20% on some of Babeland's holiday and disco items.

Plus, 20% Off on all Jimmyjane products - ends Sunday. 

And, through Monday, February 11th, customers can receive a free special gift (Bondage in a Box Kit) with their purchase of $99+. Use code TIEDUP at checkout.

Wahl 7-in-1 Massager

I've been using the Wahl 7 in 1 from Babelend and I must say I love it!!

The great thing about the Wahl is it is just a standard massager. You can use it for whatever you want- "normal" massage or a bit more personal sexy massage.  If you want a discrete vibrator to use, you could buy this and nobody would ever know what you really use it for. It comes with a variety of attachments including ones for deep massage, scalp massage, and facial massage. It has 2 settings that work really well. The first is a softer massage and the other is for deeper more intense pleasure. It fits comfortably in your hard and it's really quiet, too.

I'm personally a big fan of the scalp massage attachment. It's amazing how relaxing that is for me!

Go ahead and try it out. You won't regret it!

Valentine's Day Giveaway!

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Sex Stoppers -- Birthing Babies

Sex Stopper: Birthing Babies. Let me begin by saying I love babies. I love them so much that I have made some. But if you have ever been around children you can probably imagine that they have the power to put a screeching halt to your sex life. Not only do they cry a lot and demand all of your attention, they also do quite a number on your body. Saggy boobs, for instance, are one of my favorite side effects of motherhood.

How ironic is it that to become a mother we have to mutilate our pretty little sexy spot as we push a watermelon through a silly straw? The resulting deformities have a way of zapping the Marilyn right out of you. And if the looks of things aren't enough, think of the shifting and settling that occurs. Your reproductive organs are like a melting iceberg. But we happily do it for those ten little fingers and toes.

P.S. Why doesn't anyone write about this in the pregnancy books? "You're baby will eat every three hours, spit up a lot, and -- oh yeah-- your pretty little vagina is going to look like Freddy Krueger got a hold of it. Okay, maybe not that bad.

Heather said...

Here's a question, I just had our second child 2 months ago, and now everything feels very different down there. Orgasm is difficult again, and it's as if my clitoris has moved or feels different (I don't know how else to say it!) Any thoughts? My husband is patient but mornings like this when I know the kids will be up at 8:00 and I've given us plenty of time to enjoy ourselves but then nothing happens for me are VERY frustrating to me!

JUNE 23, 2010 1:13 PM

Solution: First of all, be kind to yourself. You just created a human!! Give your body time to heal. Give your psyche time to heal. It's natural to be a bit leery of a big, handsome, aroused man after the trauma that is childbirth -- it might hurt! Don't panic. You will heal.

Your pelvic floor muscle becomes very week and damaged during delivery. Many problems can occur from this; greater difficulty achieving orgasm, hypoactive sexual desire, decreased sensation, and incontinence. Here is an example taken from a study called Sexual and Relationship Therapy performed by the University of Central Lancashire, Preston, UK. Susan and Peter had recently given birth to their third child and Susan was experiencing a hypoactive sexual desire.

"During the third pregnancy she began to leak urine, occasionally when she walked, but more frequently when lifting her children and heavy objects. She also found that she leaked urine when she experienced orgasm, both when having sex with Peter and on masturbation. She was embarrassed by wetting the bed. At first she tried to hold back her orgasm during sexual intercourse but this did not always stop the leakage which then occurred during penile thrusting. Her embarrassment lead her to withdraw from sex with Peter although she continued to have the desire to make love with him. She also reported that her orgasms during masturbation on her own and on the rare occasions when she had intercourse were less intense and pleasurable than they were before her last [birth]."

The suggested treatment was to use a product like Lelo's Luna Beads. I blogged about them here. Luna Beads give your pelvic floor muscle the most luxurious workout of your life. You won't even break a sweat :) I think every girl should own Luna Beads, babies or no. The strength developed in your PC muscle will knock his and her socks off.

Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

I am so thankful for the service men and women who give of themselves to defend our freedom. And, I am just as thankful for their spouses. Bless you sweet, strong, amazing "Army Wives." I look up to you and admire you.

Are any of you, dear readers, Army Wives? I would love to feature your Love Story on Monday. Send me an email or leave a comment if you are interested. gwenisinlove {at} gmail {dot} com

P.S. Just a reminder about Babeland's Memorial Day Sale. 20% off Lelo products will set your spirits free! Feel free to leave an anonymous comment if you need help picking out a product. I highly recommend Mona.

Feelin' Sexy Friday -- Luna Beads

I woke up this morning to a fabulous email announcing the Babeland Memorial Day Sale. 20% off nearly everything on their website! The sale starts tomorrow. This news came just in time for Feelin' Sexy Friday.

Have you all heard of Kegels? Kegel exercises are named after Dr. Arnold Kegel. The idea is to contract and then relax the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor. This builds strength and endurance and makes it easier to orgasm. Kegels are especially beneficial in cases of pregnancy, childbirth, aging, being overweight, and abdominal surgery.

Want to take it a step further? (Yes, you do!) Let me introduce you to the wonder of the Luna Beads:

The Luna Beads are made by Lelo, so you know they're good.

From the Babeland site:

Take your orgasms to mind-blowing heights with Luna Beads. Two sets of weighted beads give you the opportunity to ramp up your vaginal workout over time. Start with the lighter (28g), move on to the heavier (37g), and then use both at once for a truly pleasurable exercise challenge.

The looped string makes resistance exercise a cinch--just tug lightly on the string with the balls inserted. Daily PC muscle exercise can prevent/reverse stress incontinence, increase muscular control, and strengthen orgasms. And even if exercise is the last thing on your mind, the weighted balls will send you into orbit as you walk down the street (or wash the dishes, or shift in your seat at work…). Beads are made of a polycarbonate and ABS plastic blend, encasement is medical-grade silicone. Beads are removable for easy cleanup, two sets of differently-weighted beads included.

If you are having a hard time "getting in the mood" try using the Luna Beads an hour before husband comes home from work. You will be begging him for a rendezvous in no time.

Have you heard of Kegels? Have you tried them?

Mother's Day Giveaway -- Body Essentials Kit

Mother's Day is a celebration of women -- children or no. Women are beautiful. They are giving. They are kind. A women can nurture like a man can not. On Mother's Day, I feel a sisterhood with you amazing women. I am honored to stand beside you under this title.

You are precious and you deserve a massage :) Complete receiving.

Babeland has the sweetest massage kit I've ever seen. They come in four different colors and scents: refreshing lightness of Blue Pleasure, sweet citrus-y Orange Romance, delicate floral Yellow Delight, and the featured giveaway, warm and rich Pink Love.

Each kit includes:

• 1/4-ounce flavored Lickable Oil
• a one-ounce bottle of Massage Oil
• 8-1/2ml Massage Oil Spray
• 1/2-ounce BabeLicious flavored lube
• one small Massage Bar
• a one-ounce Massage Candle

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Thank you, Babeland, for this fun Mother's Day Gift!