Shy Erotica

This list includes more mild forms of erotica and romance that you could use in your relationship.

• Reminisce about how you fell in love. Tell him what you loved/love about him.
  
• Public Displays of Affection. Hold hands, rub his back, play with his hair, nibble his ear, kiss etc.
  
• Try to inconspicuously rub or grab his butt (or other things) while out.
  
• Have a make out session. Better yet, make out somewhere outside of your home.
  
• Write love notes on the shower wall.
• Get dressed in front of your husband in the morning. Ask him to help you put your bra on.
  
• Plan a relaxing night in. Send the kids away.
• Get out for a couples massage.
• Massage each other at home.
• Send him out on a mission to choose some lingerie for you.
• Go buy lingerie together.
• Wear lingerie out on your date under your clothing and subtly give him a little sneak peek for when you get back home.
• Do the housework in lingerie. Change in to your lingerie before he gets home from work.
  
• Watch a romantic movie together.
• Read a romantic book or poetry.
  
• Do Sensate Focus.
• Compile sensual music that gets you both in the mood.
  
• Incorporate food (e.g. strawberries, whipped cream, honey)
• Light some scented candles. Scents such as jasmine, lavender, and ylang ylang are said to be aphrodisiacs, but do your research.
  
• Write love notes in emails or texts. Talk dirty.
• Meet for your lunch break at home.
• Take control of a sexual encounter.
  

I'm working on another list with some ideas that may require a bit more bravery and higher comfort level, but I thought I'd start by sharing this one.

What other suggestions do you have?