Questions:
- Do you wish you had sex more often? Less often?
- Do you think your husband wishes you had sex more often? Less often?
You may think you know what his response is. Have you asked him? Are you holding out or putting out?
Anonymous comments welcome :)
My husband TOTALLY wishes we had sex more often!
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure my hubby wants to have sex more often. I want to want to have sex more often...
ReplyDeleteI'm going anonymous because I am just not brave enough yet... haha
ReplyDeleteUp until a couple weeks ago I know for sure my husband would have said MORE often (and I would too, but I was dealing with some issues.) God seemed to take care of it all and for the last 2 weeks we've been like honeymooners all over again! YAY!! ;)
Handsome Man and I have been married for two years, and I've definitely been the one who initiates most often. His job is very tiring, so he doesn't usually have the energy to get things started. But I've learned how to rev the engine, and then I wants it as much as I do :-)
ReplyDeleteHonestly wish we had it more often. He would tell you less often. I have a guy who would rather cuddle than have sex. Swear he has that low testerone thing they always advertise on tv. The only thing that remotely turns him on is huge boobs. He doesn't even like lingerie.
ReplyDeleteWhere are these guys who want it everyday? I've never met a guy like that, even my guy friends say they prefer it maybe twice a week. Yet if you read any woman's magazine they say men want sex all the time.
I'm going anonymous only because if he read this it would hurt his feelings to know I shared this with everyone.
I feel like I'm the only woman who wants it more than her man. ;)
My husband and I have sex almost everday and I feel satisfied with that and I'm sure he does too since he is the one who instigates it most of the time. :)
ReplyDeleteoops...*he* wants it as much as I do!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I have crazy opposite schedule so when we see each other at night, we try to do it as often as we can/feel like. This usually means 3 maybe 4 times a week. He used to have a problem with porn that we worked on and now I feel like we need to do it more often to satisy him. I'm okay with doing that but a lot of times I feel like I want to do it more than he does. I hope that doesn't mean anything...we are working on it. Does anyone else have a husband that sometimes can't get things going when he isn't in the mood? I thought making out with an attractive naked woman would make things happen but not always...
ReplyDeleteWe both wish we'd sex more often, but being with my military beau in a Long Distance Relationship doesn't help. Although doing it after the long wait makes everything magical and reminds me how worth the wait is :]
ReplyDeleteBoth wish more often. Anonymous because I haven't admitted this to anyone, not even my dog :). He is "inexperienced" while I am not. It's the same thing over and over. I have told him things and suggested things, but he either jokes them off or makes me feel like a moron for even saying it. I formerly would have considered myself a freakin' "kitten" now I sometimes wonder if I'd be okay to never have sex again. Suggestions?
ReplyDeleteI think we both wish more often, but a lot of the time we have opposite schedules. Also, we're both very young (and newlyweds), and I think we're both "inexperienced", me more so than him. Suggestions?
ReplyDeletei think since we waited to have sex until we were married...our sex life has been awesome and frequent. We've been on a 6 month honeymoon which also helps. I'm sure once we get jobs we'll both want it more!
ReplyDeleteHe definitely wants it more often than I do. I want to want it more often - I agree with April on that one! Have any of you ladies ever experienced a decreased sex drive on the Pill?
ReplyDeletehi there. i'm your newest follower! aaaaand i have to say that i'm glad i stumbled across your bloggie blog!
ReplyDeletei have to say that i thought i was the only one that wanted sex WAY more than my husband. whoever has been saying that the longer your married the less you want it. they were talking rubbish. now i know i'm no expert {going on 8 months of marriage here... still a newbie... at everything.} but i will say the I WANT IT ALL THE TIME!
no excuses. we're making it happen MORE as of right now! {well, not right now... he's at work. but when he gets off work the magic will be happening}
Oh..I know that my hubby would like to have sex more. He tells me quite often that he would like to have sex everyday.With our crazy schedules, it is just hard. I try to get it in 2-3 times per week. I think the older I get I want more of the romance than just a roll in the hay.
ReplyDeleteFirst, thank you for this blog. Sometimes I feel alone when it comes to this topic. Other than my husband, I don't discuss sex with anyone.
ReplyDeleteMy husband definitely wants it more than me. It is his love language. I am not good at speaking it. I want to want sex more. This is the one area of our relationship that struggles. Any suggestions?
My husband would definitely say more often. I would LOVE to have sex more often, but I never seem to have the energy for it at the end of the day.
ReplyDeleteHillary Lane - that was a HUGE problem for us the first two years of our marriage. I had ZERO sex drive. None at all, and I was on the Pill. I stopped the pill and we switched to a different method of BC, and things definitely improved ... maybe not quite as much as I wish, but SO much better than they were.
ReplyDeleteI wish we had it more.
ReplyDeleteI think my husband wishes that too... in theory. But he doesn't want to put the effort into it... it's not THAT important to him :(
Actually has this very conversation last night.
ReplyDeleteOne should never underestimate the importance of sex in a relationship! You and your partner is what's keeping the family up. Meaning: Your relationship is like a solid basement, which needs to be strong and well looked after, in order to keep up the rest of the house.
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i'm sorry to admit we're hardly at it at all right now... i've recently been put on anti depressants due to work related stress. I feel much better in my self now, but my sex drive is none existent.
I miss my Husband. I see him everyday, but i miss him.
any hints/tips???