If you and your hubby are looking for a more individualized discussion and treatment for sexual dissatisfaction or disorders then I really recommend meeting with a sex therapist.
AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) as well as AAMFT (American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy) are great places to start your search. Hopefully, you can find somebody in your area that meets your needs.
Don't be afraid to shop around for a therapist. Most counselors will do a free initial phone consultation. Be upfront about your background, your values, your goals and qualities you would like in a therapist. You will have a better experience if you are open and honest.